Thankful Thursday 2018 ~ Week 18

This entry is part 18 of the series Thankful Thursday

Happy Thankful Thursday once more everyone!

No, I hadn’t fallen off the planet. Nor have I stopped giving thanks. I was committed to do the A to Z Blogging Challenge.

I did post the first week, but it was no good posting on Thursday, as in the A to Z we posted every day except Sunday. So I posted Sunday, but understandably got few visitors. So I decided to play catchup on the first Thursday of May.

Last night, I decided instead of throwing over 100 thanks at you, I would recalculate. In order to reach my goal of 2018 thanks by the end of 2018, I’m now posting 42 thanks a week instead of 39. That’s easy, hi?

First as always, a tip on how to improve your blog.

Join a couple of Facebook blogs and or a challenge.

  • Select a group where you think you will fit in, and read the rules carefully.
  • You need a group where you’re encouraged to post links on a regular basis.
  •  This is not spammy. It is reciprocal. You check out their links and comment or share in return for them doing the same for you.
  • A challenge, like the A to Z Blogging Challenge is good fun for a short limited period. It’s time-consuming, but if you play right, you will see a huge increase to your blog stats, and gain some followers along the way.
  • Here’s a funny story. A member of a group I belonged to invited me to join her own group, where you have to visit at the very least two blogs above your link, but you can link as often as you like. I joined the group before realising most of the group  live in India, a country I don’t anticipate ever visiting. I hung in there for a few weeks purely for good manners but planned to leave after a little while. But this group has become so supportive and I’ve made some great pals from folk I would never normally have linked up with!
  • During the A to Z, they ran a separate A to Z posting section and I tried to visit as many of them as possible every day. So don’t be too picky about the ‘nature’ of the group. The friendliness of the people is more important.

If you’re looking for a group, Blog, Share, Learn is a fun group for folk in their mid to later lives, with a daily posting spot for links. Write Tribe is the group I refer to where most of the folk are Indian, but you do have to visit the two posts immediately above you which has got me reading about Indian customs I would normally have avoided. That’s stretched me, both as a person and as a blogger.

And now onto the next 42 thankful points for this week.

The Month of April

  1. We returned from East London and had a really good time with Prime Timers (a group for the over 50s that we run).
  2. That afternoon I came down with a streaming cold. Praise the Lord it was after Prime Timers and after our East London trip.
  3. I spent Sunday in bed, and thank You, Lord, I seemed better by evening.

Writing Retreat

  1. I left on a writing retreat in a garden cottage. So grateful it was available for me to use for the week.
  2. It was also close enough for me to go home to my husband each evening for supper, then I’d write my next post for the A to Z Blogging challenge before heading for bed.
  3. Each morning, before getting out of bed, I checked my A to Z post of the day and submitted it. Whenever I got the chance during the early morning and evening, I checked for comments and read and commented on other blogs. So pleased I managed to keep up.
  4. Every day, I worked solidly, doing all the last minute tasks involved in publishing a book. Thankfully I was able to concentrate without interruption.
  5. There were a number of challenges as it’s the first time I’ve ever self-published a book in print. Tasks took many hours that I’d expected to take a matter of minutes. Thanks to advice from friends I got through them.
  6. The cover was a major challenge. I had already made the front cover (for the eBook) but this time I had to do the back page and the bleed margins (which I’d never even heard about before!) I am so thankful for my super printer in Cape Town who guided me through the process.
  1. Thanks also to my friend Marion Ueckermann who was on holiday in New Zealand,  yet took time out to send me samples of what I needed to do as she’d already done covers for CreateSpace in America.
  2. There were times I didn’t think I’d ever get it all right. I came to getting the ISBN. I knew how to do this, so ordered it from the government department responsible. Thank you that, incredibly, this is free in South Africa. In other countries it is very expensive.
  3. I then had to create a barcode from the number. I followed all the instructions on several sites, and each time I was told my information was incorrect. Eventually, I phoned another friend, Val Waldeck, who has published many books. Thank you Val for always being available when I’m in trouble!
  4. It turned out she didn’t do her own barcodes, but she contacted her publisher who does them for her, and incredibly he offered to do mine for me if I sent him the ISBN. Thank you Clyde!
  5. Can you believe this? Clyde couldn’t do it either. Turned out I’d been given an incorrect ISBN. Isn’t that typical? It has to be me! Thank you that at least I now knew it wasn’t my stupidity that couldn’t get it right.
  6. I sent off an immediate email saying I thought I’d been given an incorrect ISBN. I fully expected this to work on government time and take ages, but first thing the next morning I received an email with an apology. Instead of the number ending with 558, they’d told me 588. Easy enough typo, but still! I was thankful for a prompt and polite response.

Keeping Fit

  1. All this time I kept fit. How? You’ve guessed it. My fitbit! Every hour I hopped up from my computer and paced up and down the small cottage until I’d done 250 steps. This was done to the absolute astonishment of one perplexed young boxer who was keeping me company!
  2. When I got home in the evening, my husband and I went for a brisk walk around the suburb pushing up my step count. So I didn’t lose out on my fitness goals at all. Thank you Rob for your encouragement!
  3. The final day of my retreat was Saturday. I finished that evening! Whew! And thank you! I just had to figure out a few technicalities, so Sunday saw me working flat out to get those done.
  4. Monday morning, I tried to send the two files (one the cover, and the other the inner manuscript) to Cape Town. No way was my server going to allow me to send these huge files. Thankful for Dropbox, I contacted my Cape Town printer to ask if that would be okay.
  5. He came back to me immediately, suggesting I rather used We Transfer. I did this, and am most impressed with this service. Make a note of it, folks. – takes huge files and sends immediate receipts both when it has gone off to the person and when the person has opened it. Thanks We Transfer!

Off to Hoekwil! 

  1. Next day (Tuesday) we left to visit our son and family in Hoekwil. This is a tiny rural area above the beautiful Wilderness town on the Garden Route of South Africa. Thankful that we could get away on time despite the chaos of the previous few weeks.
  2. They were leaving for Disney World in Paris the following week, so we were keen to see them before they left. Thankful for their very beautiful new home.
  3. Lovely to see our youngest grandsons once more. They’re growing up! It was fun joining in their games and watching them on their bikes.
  4. We loved their latest arrival – a young sheepdog who is just so cute and amazingly friendly.
  5. We arrived on Tuesday. On Wednesday I forgot one dose of my high blood pressure medications. Thank you that all seemed fine.
  6. Thursday evening I became really ill and realised I’d missed another dose. My BP was extremely high and my son and husband rushed me down the mountain to the nearest hospital which happens to be the George Medi-Clinic. We were very thankful for the prompt efficiency of the staff who jumped into action as soon as they saw my blood pressure.
  7. So very thankful that I didn’t end up with a stroke, as my BP was certainly looking that way.
  8. My blood pressure continued to be unstable so they kept me in overnight and allowed my family to go home. Although I wanted to go home, I was relieved to stay in as I was scared it would happen again and it’s a long and dangerous road. I was also thankful to stay over as it meant the medical aid would cover the cost! If I’d gone home we would have had to pay for it.
  9. As a result I got absolutely no sleep. (Ever tried to sleep in the casualty department (ER) of a hospital?) We were due to leave for home that morning, but Steve said we were to stay another night and I needed some sleep. Grateful for Steve and Hannelie’s willingness to let us stay over despite their soon-approaching Paris trip.

Back to Port Elizabeth

  1. Despite being very tired, we had an enjoyable and safe trip home on Saturday.
  2. Yay!! When we got back, my neighbour had my proof of Naomi ~ Beloved Mother-in-law. It had arrived safely the day it was due (Friday). Thank you for friendly neighbours who step in and help when necessary.
  3. Thanks to Grant Walton of Digital Actions for his efficient work on the book. It’s beautiful!
  4. Very grateful for the proof stage of a book! I couldn’t believe the tiny typos I discovered and was able to correct.
  5. Biggest of all. I couldn’t believe a spelling error that had crept into the back cover – of all places! That would have been so bad. Thank you that I spotted it. (You tend to read what you know you meant, so I didn’t notice my assurance that the text of the book stuck closely to the Biblial version of the story.)
  6. Okay, so did you notice my deliberate (this time) error? Be honest!
  7. On the Monday after we got home, I took myself off to my GP as my blood pressure was still doing funny things and I was having to take extra meds to keep it from spiking out of control again.
  8. From the time I missed those silly pills until now, I’ve had to keep monitoring my blood pressure. As my pharmacist daughter-in-law put it, “You’ve rattled its cage, and it’s going to take a while to settle down. Just do NOT forget it again!” Thank you that I have a blood pressure monitoring device. It has certainly proved its value this month.

Working in partnership!

  1. Especially since my husband suddenly took to nearly passing out from . . . wait for it! Low blood pressure! This was caused by an experimental pill the doctor put him on. One experiment quickly proved not a good idea! Thank you that although he had some close calls he never actually fell so didn’t injure himself.
  2. So despite hating to have to admit I have a severe hypertension problem, I am grateful for the medication available. Now to remember to take them!
  3. I think I’m also grateful for the fright we’ve all had. This has been a big wakeup call, and I know now that I can’t mess around with these meds. It wasn’t deliberate, obviously, but I never worried if I was a few hours late taking the pills. Now if I’m two hours late, my BP is already on its way up! Scary. But thank you for that wakeup!
  4.  As a result of all the BP nonsense (between us both) I took longer than anticipated going through my proof, but I’m delighted to say that book is now finished and in the hands of the printer. It will be finished sometime this week.
  5. I spent an entire morning getting quotes for couriers to transport the books, but finally ended up going with the firm used by the printer themselves. As they explained to me, that means there’s a slight markup on the price – but they get a special deal because they are regular customers. Despite the markup, they’re still considerably cheaper than the other options. So I’m thankful that I now have a trustworthy courier that is not going to cost me a fortune to move the books.

End of A to Z for another year!

  1. And so, April has come to an end, and I survived and completed the A to Z Challenge. I enjoyed the theme, Improve your Life, Improve your Mind and from what I can see from the comments, so did others. Here is the full list of posts if you are interested in reading any of them: Improve your Life, Improve your Mind.

Thank you for your support and encouragement!

  • What was the highlight of April for you?

25 comments on “Thankful Thursday 2018 ~ Week 18

  1. Congratulations on finishing the AtoZ challenge, Shirley! Blogging groups are awesome, aren’t they? I love the support and the activities that these groups offer.
    Hope you are having a wonderful month!

  2. Congratulations for finishing A to Z. I can not quite recall how I found the blogging group you refer to but it’s been several years and I have never found anything but warm welcomes from the group. I, also, am grateful for hypertension medicine. My grandmother died from hypertension in 1937, when there was no treatment for it. Now, I just take two pills a day for it. So grateful!.

  3. Congratulations on completing the A to Z. Facebook groups are great. Even when I’ve been away for a while (with a brain fade), you always find the support when you come back to blogging again. The Write Tribe is a wonderful group to be in.

  4. I too get a constant support from my facebookgroups. It’s important to find the one that works well, and once you find one, there’s no looking back. 😀

  5. I joined that same group that you did! And I am so happy that I did! It’s such a great and supportive group of bloggers! Plus, I’ve learned a lot about India.

    Congratulations on finishing the A through Z challenge. That was a real adventure in blogging and in learning new vocabulary. I truly enjoyed it and intend to do it again next year.

    I hope that you’re feeling better and that your blood pressure is stabilized.

    Have a great day and I always look forward to your blog posts.

    • Thanks for your visit, Shalmojo. My writing retreat was actually created in desperation to give me the concentrated time to get my book finished, away from distractions. It worked thank goodness!

  6. I am sorry shirley, there was a problem in linking on my computer and I see that my name is added four times, I am trying to delete but do not know, kindly delete, I apologize for this error.

  7. Wow that was awesome, loved your long and enthusiastic post. Glad that you are fine and had a great time visiting your son and spending some time with your grand child. The image of Psalm is beautiful, and how nice to know that you are coming out with a book on Naomi… congrats for all that you have achieved despite your BP going high… gratitude has kept you happy and the faith and perseverance has enabled you. Thank you for sharing:)

    • Yes, the funny thing is I wouldn’t have expected to fit into that Indian group, so it’s been lovely their acceptance and all the things we have in common!

  8. Great ongoing list Shirley and I loved your blogging tips. It’s funny that you wrote about FB – I’m reducing my updates on my blog’s FB page because FB makes it impossible for them to be seen unless I pay. Groups are definitely the way to go and I belong to BSL and a couple of others that are really helpful.

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