If a thing is worth doing
I was brought up with the saying, “If a thing is worth doing, it’s worth doing well.”
So I grew up thinking if I couldn’t do it well, it obviously wasn’t worth doing at all!
Why do anything if it wasn’t going to turn out perfectly?
Then the other day, I was startled to stumble across this expression:'If a thing is worth doing, it is worth doing badly.' G.K.Chesterton. Really? Click To Tweet
As I pondered this unusual expression, I came to see the danger in the original belief. “If it’s worth doing, it’s worth doing well.” Doesn’t that paralyse us with a fear of failure? Isn’t only the Lord perfect?
Confession time here:
I hate to fail! I would rather not tackle a project than do it and fail. It puts me under an inordinate pressure to perform to the best of my ability.
Last year, I faced a book deadline, which I was battling to reach, followed with an already planned Book Launch (for the book that wasn’t yet published), I had family traveling to join me for the Book Launch—and I got flu. All at once. Just before, and immediately after the flu, (and before the Book Launch) my husband and I went on two family visits in different directions, but both approximately four hours drive away from home.
I had computer problems. (But of course! That’s inevitable when there is a deadline involved!) And my blood pressure shot off the charts, involving three trips to the emergency room.
You think that was bad enough?
D’you want to know the real killer?
I had signed up to do the A to Z Blogging Challenge! And that meant 26 posts on one topic, ranging from A to Z. I had to do it! I had to produce a good post on each letter on the topic, which I may add required a good deal of research. Why did I have to do it? Because I’d committed myself to doing it. All the well-meaning teachings of my childhood flooded in.
- You can’t break a commitment.
- Your word is your bond. You said you’d do it.
- You believe the topic is worth doing . . . and if it’s worth doing, it’s worth doing well!
- I’m a Christian. If I don’t complete it on time, I will let the Lord down.
Now you understand, each of these were important!
- The Book Launch was organised. It would be very inconvenient to a lot of people to change the date.
- There couldn’t be a launch for a book that was not yet available. So it had to get done.
- The family visits? Both could probably have been postponed to a more convenient date, but I really wanted to see my brother and family on the one visit, and my son and family on the other.
- And the A to Z? I love the A to Z Challenge. But how important was it? I could have dropped from the challenge and still covered the topics at a later stage! But that would have meant failure! And that would never do! If the job was worth doing . . . it was worth doing well!
As I thought of G.K.Chesterton’s rendition of the phrase, I saw this so clearly. I could still have done the challenge. But I could have done it badly! I could have said, “No way! This is too much pressure. It is causing too much stress. I believe in the topic, and I want to do it. But I’m going to do it after the book launch!”
I started to think of all the other times I’ve persevered with projects for really one reason only: to give it up would have meant failure! I had started it. I needed to do it well! Which meant I had to complete the task.
Renewing of your Mind?
I’ve always taken this passage of Scripture to mean I must make everything perfect. But is it perhaps saying, take another look at what you’re doing? Maybe it’s time for a fresh approach. A renewed way of thinking?
The article I was reading (and unfortunately, I can’t remember where this was) gave several examples.
- If you don’t have time (or motivation) to take a bath—rather wash your face and hands than do nothing.
- If you can’t face making a well-balanced meal—eat an apple instead of going hungry.
I can think of others.
- If you can’t get a full-time job—get a part-time job. Just do something!
- If you can’t get up early in the morning— get up later! But get out of that bed!
- If you can’t be bothered getting up and getting dressed—get up! And wear your PJs.
- If I can’t visit someone in hospital every second day—I can at least go once and show I care.
The idea of doing things badly frees me up. It doesn’t mean I need to turn out shoddy work, but it does give me a license to try something new. If it doesn’t work out, it doesn’t matter! I don’t have to wait until the perfect moment to start.
If I try a new restaurant and it doesn’t work out well, that’s fine. I’ve learned for next time.
If I start out on a book topic and realise it’s not going the way I’d hoped, I can change my mind. I may come back to it later, or I may never come back to it. And guess what? The world will keep on turning!
A cure for stress and anxiety?
Since coming across this expression, I’ve found a huge relief from stress.
If we allow ourselves the freedom to avoid always needing perfection, we will find it is true. If a thing is worth doing, it’s worth the risk that it might not be perfect. But at least we’ll have tried!
So how about adopting this attitude for a period and see if it doesn’t free you of some anxiety and pressure?
If it’s worth doing, it’s worth doing badly!
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Have a great week!